This guy about whom I was talking last time is really sweet. He calls himself Brads though that has nothing to do with his real name. He doesn’t work in my office. But keeps coming for work with us, and also meets boss. We first began interacting very officially for work. Slowly I think we have finding some common wavelength.
It’s good to have someone like that who is of your wavelength, is it not? Brads is considerate even if not loving. Because, the last boyfriend showed all signs of love; but somehow I felt it wasn’t coming from the depth of his heart. He can hold hands, hug, kiss and do whatever, but it is not an extension of a deep longing, it’sn’t genuine.
That’s why I am going slow on Brads as well. Guys do everything to win a girl’s heart, but I think girls must wait to see if that’s a real effort. I don’t know, that’s what I feel after my experiences. I am ready for causal flings, I think I am. But I must know it’s a casual fling, so I won’t get too involved.
